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SFW alphabet (Dishy)
A = Affection (How affectionate are they? How do they show affection?)
Dishy is VERY affectionate. He usually shoes affection by physical touch or gifts, but he'll do whatever im comfortable with
B = Best friend (What would they be like as a best friend? How would the friendship start?)
He'd be a great best friend! he'd be very caring and nice, always showing up when I need him. It'd start at home, when he was a dishwasher, probably.
C = Cuddles (Do they like to cuddle? How would they cuddle?)
He LOVES cuddling, and any type of physical affection. he doesn't mind being the big or little spoon, as long as he gets to be close to me.
D = Domestic (Do they want to settle down? How are they at cooking and cleaning?)
Well, we are married, so.....
And, he's very good at cookingand cleaning, especially cleaning! everything has to be spotless when he's around, which is funny, since I'm a pretty messy person. But, he doesn't mind as long as I help clean sometimes!
E = Ending (If they had to break up with their partner, how would they do it?)
shhhhhhh...... we don't think about this.........
F = Fiance(e) (How do they feel about commitment? How quick would they want to get married?)
As I said before, we are married, so I'm sure he doesn't mind commitment! We got married pretty quickly, maybe about a year into the relationship?
G = Gentle (How gentle are they, both physically and emotionally?)
He is very gentle, unless I ask him not to be. He really truly cares about me and doesn't want to hurt me in any way, which is very sweet of him <3
H = Hugs (Do they like hugs? How often do they do it? What are their hugs like?)
BIG hugger. always accepts hugs and often asks for them too!
I = I love you (How fast do they say the L-word?)
Almost immediately lol
J = Jealousy (How jealous do they get? What do they do when they’re jealous?)
Dishy doesn't get jealous often, but when he very rarely does, he'll pull me aside, communicate, and let me know!
K = Kisses (What are their kisses like? Where do they like to kiss you? Where do they like to be kissed?)
Very sweet and gentle kisses (of course, unless I ask him to be rough). he loves to kiss me on my hands, my cheeks, my lips, and honestly just everywhere....
he loves being kissed on the forehead and the cheek, I'm not sure why!
L = Little ones (How are they around children?)
Dishy is VERY good around children. Hes sweet and kind and just amazing, he's very patient and perfect with kids! Unfortunately, I am not, so we probably can't have kids!
M = Morning (How are mornings spent with them?)
Dishy is a morning person, while I am not, so I'll usually just lay in bed snoozing my alarm while he's up and at it getting ready for work! Sometimes he'll motivate me to get up on time, but it usually doesn't work.
N = Night (How are nights spent with them?)
Cuddles and kisses before bed. Usually also watching a movie before bed too! He makes very quiet snores. it's sort of comforting...
O = Open (When would they start revealing things about themselves? Do they say everything all at once or wait a while to reveal things slowly?)
Dishy waited quite a while before telling me more about himself. He still felt nervous about ut, like when he was a dishwasher.
P = Patience (How easily angered are they?)
He is very patient, but when he gets angry, it's VERY obvious. He would never hurt me intentionally, but he does get a little scary.
Q = Quizzes (How much would they remember about you? Do they remember every little detail you mention in passing, or do they kind of forget everything?)
Oh, he remembers EVERYTHING I tell him. He writes a lot of it down in his notes, because he has a notebook for things I tell him for some reason.
R = Remember (What is their favorite moment in your relationship?)
When we got married <3 He proposed to me in a fancy restaurant !! it was so romantic, but a little scary..
S = Security (How protective are they? How would they protect you? How would they like to be protected?)
Dishy is pretty protective, he really tried to keep me out of danger and safe from uncomfortable people. Dishy is a very confident and strong person, so the only thing I can protect him from is himself. When he gets angry, he gets self destructive, so I try my best to help.
T = Try (How much effort would they put into dates, anniversaries, gifts, everyday tasks?)
He tries his best and puts SO much effort into things like this. He only gets me gifts he knows id like, he only takes me places he knows id like, and he celebrates our anniversary monthly without forgetting even once!!
U = Ugly (What would be some bad habits of theirs?)
Breaking things when he's mad. It gets scary sometimes, but I know he can't really help it. He's trying and getting help for his issues, he's got a therapist, and I think it's been helping!
V = Vanity (How concerned are they with their looks?)
He's pretty concerned with them! He's gotta look good and professional for his job, y'know.
W = Whole (Would they feel incomplete without you?)
I think so? i believe I'm very important to him.
X = Xtra (A random headcanon for them.)
He does not like carrots. refuses to eat them.
Y = Yuck (What are some things they wouldn’t like, either in general or in a partner?)
carrots.
Z = Zzz (What is a sleep habits of theirs?)
He gets off his phone and hour before bed and reads a book. Very healthy!